Memorial Day came and went while most of us enjoyed our
3-day vacation doing chores around the house or kicking back with friends and
family. In April my friend Mary Ann and I were in Washington DC touring the
memorials there. At the Vietnam War Memorial we listened to a volunteer veteran
explain the notations after the names and watched him help people take a
rubbing from the wall. The Lincoln Memorial was very crowded with people from
all over the world. The new Martin Luther King Memorial is quite grand and the
word monolithic came to mind.
This larger-than-life full-length portrait of King is carved from stone
reminiscent of Mount Rushmore or Stone Mountain in Georgia. He is looking
towards the water and the Jefferson Memorial, surrounded by a wall carved with
quotes from his speeches.
The one that was the most poignant for us, however, was the
new Korean War Memorial. The day we were there, a Sunday, we ran into a large
group of older veterans, called Honor Flight from Montana, making the rounds. Many
of the vets were in wheelchairs and one Korean War veteran was telling the
story of landing on the beach in Korea the same day as Gen. MacArthur. A female
representative of the VFW recorded his oral history as he talked and asked him
questions. I was absorbed in his
story and keeping it together until I turned and saw a group of Koreans leaving
a wreath and wiping their eyes and then I shed a few tears myself. Mary Ann took these pictures as mementos of that day.
Korean War Veteran with figures of the Korean War Memorial in the background.
A memento is an object made or saved to remember a person or an event by and it can be a piece of jewelry. Queen Victoria is frequently credited for
starting a fad for mourning jewelry. Her reign from 1837-1901 coincided with the development of photography and mass produced jewelry making it possible for ordinary people to own a photograph or a locket. She loved jewelry and when her
husband Albert died, she went into mourning wearing black clothes, black stones and jewelry made from his hair for the rest of her life. You can still find Victorian hair jewelry in antique
stores today though not all of it is about death. People exchanged locks of hair for many reasons including friendship and betrothal.
I have integrated hair in my work off and on for many years. A brooch I made in the early 1990s intended as an amusing comment on hairdressers has inadvertently become mourning jewelry for me as it contains a
lock of my sister's hair. Hair doesn't rot and preserves the DNA of the person it
came from.
No More Bad Haircuts, 1994, brooch, silver, gemstones and found objects. Copyright Nancy Worden
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